Hello dear ones, hope you are all doing well. Finally, I’m able to write this long-due blog. After we lost Cheeku, I decided to take a break and ease back into my routine instead of just jumping right in.
I know and have heard stories of people being forced to return to their routine and daily chores immediately after a loss. But I feel lucky enough to be my own boss and follow my own belief system in both my work and personal life. There’s no right or wrong way to deal with things—it’s all about what works for you and gives you peace.
I know I’m running late with my content and missed the most important days of Navratri. But for me, my values matter more. I believe that our nervous system, body, and mind need time to recover from what we go through. That’s why I created a system for myself where everything else could wait.
I read somewhere recently about what Deepika Padukone said about her postpartum period—that you lose your decision-making capacity during that time. And honestly, it hit me hard. It’s so true. Any life transition impacts your mental health. It overwhelms your nervous system as you try to adjust to new situations and realities. During this time, it's normal to feel lost temporarily.
Cheeku had been sick for almost two months before he passed away. In July and August, I couldn’t focus much on my health or work. But that’s when the videos I recorded earlier really helped. I had plans for October, but I stayed flexible, knowing the situation with Cheeku required me to take things slow. I knew if I wanted to maintain a balance between work and personal life, I had to allow myself to take it one day at a time.
Ever since I started working, I’ve faced a lot of obstacles—both personally and professionally. From dealing with loss, distractions, and criticism in my personal life to handling unprofessional, unethical people at work. There were people I worked with who didn’t take their tasks seriously despite being paid for them. Eventually, I realized that it’s all about their value system. That’s when I really began appreciating the values my parents raised me with.
When you encounter the wrong people, you actually end up reconnecting with yourself and your values. That’s what happened to me. Instead of feeling bitter, I’ve found myself silently thanking my upbringing. I’ve also learned to slow down. I’m not in a rush to achieve anything. I’m not hungry for fame or chasing success. The excitement I felt when I started is still there because I believe in the purpose behind my work.
When you step out of the box and try something new, you need to prepare for obstacles—whether it’s a lack of support, fewer opportunities, no mentors, or starting everything from scratch. But if your purpose is strong enough, that’s all you need to keep going.
In the end, it’s your belief system and values that matter. Whatever people say, however they behave, or whatever challenges life throws at you, your values will carry you through.
I hope my story encourages you to stay connected to your values, believe in yourself, and stand up for yourself when needed.
That’s all for this blog.
Love you all.
Stay blessed!
Stay connected!
